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“A poem to mortality and the beauty of how we can cope with it.”-Atul Gawande, author of Being Mortal
New York Times–bestselling artist Wendy MacNaughton shares wisdom from hospice caregivers: how to be, when to help, what to say-with full-color drawings throughout.
As artist-in-residence at the Zen Hospice Project Guest House in San Francisco, Wendy MacNaughton witnessed firsthand how difficult it is to know what to do when we're sharing final moments with a loved one. In this tenderly illustrated guide to saying goodbye, MacNaughton shows how to make sure those moments are meaningful. Using a framework of “the five things” taught to her by a professional caregiver, How to Say Goodbye provides a model for having conversations of love, respect, and closure: with the words “I forgive you,” “Please forgive me,” “Thank you,” “I love you,” and “Goodbye,” each oriented toward finding mutual peace and understanding when it matters most.
With a foreword by renowned physician and author BJ Miller, and practical resources, How to Say Goodbye features MacNaughton's drawn-from-life artwork from both the Zen Hospice Project Guest House and her own aunt's bedside as she died, paired with gentle advice from hospice caregivers on creating a positive sensory experience, acknowledging what you can't control, and sharing memories and gratitude. A poignant guide to embracing the present and deepening relationships during great vulnerability, How to Say Goodbye shows that just as there is no one right way to live a good life, there is no one right way to say goodbye. Whether we're confused, scared, or uncertain, this book is a starting point.
Published | 04 Jan 2024 |
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Format | Hardback |
Edition | 1st |
Extent | 128 |
ISBN | 9781639730858 |
Imprint | Bloomsbury Publishing |
Illustrations | 4-color illustrations throughout |
Dimensions | Not specified |
Publisher | Bloomsbury Publishing |
Words are spare, poignant, and practical: 'If you don't know what to say, start by saying that. That's very vulnerable.' An introduction from a hospice physician and a list of resources round this out as a perfect library book: one that everyone could use, one time or another.
Booklist
There are many kinds of grace in this little book . . . [there is an] underlying kindness that runs throughout.
Rebecca Solnit, author of HOPE IN THE DARK
Accessible, profound, moving, and beautiful. A unique and much-needed addition to the literature about death and dying.
Louise Aronson, MD, author of ELDERHOOD
Like singing bowls whose sounds reverberate through us, MacNaughton's drawings resonate emotional tones of the tender moments she deftly portrays.
Ira Byock, MD, author of DYING WELL
With keen eyes, a skillful hand, and a warm heart, MacNaughton has created a teaching manual on how to say goodbye . . . a gift to all of us as we face death in its many forms.
Mary Pipher, author of WOMEN ROWING NORTH
This beautiful little book is luminous and dark, heavy and light, heartbreaking and glorious. It's a gift to see the world through Wendy MacNaughton's eyes.
Lucy Kalanithi, MD, Clinical Associate Professor, Stanford University School of Medicine
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